Oct 30, 2009 04:09
14 yrs ago
English term

Who's your daddy?

English Other Slang Daddys
Having watched Pedro Martinez pitch last night in the World Series during the ATA WordFast dinner, I was reminded of the famous "daddy" incident a few years back. I had a small discussion with a fellow translator about this and we decided to post a kudos question.

What exactly does "who's your daddy" mean?

Discussion

Deborah Workman Nov 1, 2009:
agreed x2 It can be playful, even affectionate, and refers not necessarily to superiority but possibly to dependency or priority. Obviously, it can be used as a taunt or a threat (I think of movies where a pimp will say this to his prostitutes who are trying to get out from under his grip), but it is not always vulgar or violent.
urbom Nov 1, 2009:
agreed It's used playfully to assert one's superiority over another -- not a vulgar insult.
Travelin Ann Nov 1, 2009:
Folks - while it may not be the nicest question in the English language, it is not as dirty as expletive deleted!!! It is a rhetorical question. Trust me - if it were as dirty as some of the answerers contend, American television would *bleep* it!!

Responses

+9
5 mins
Selected

Listen a#sh*&le, I own you, and you had better face up to it.

Without every investigating the matter in depth, I always assumed that this is what the meaning of the phrase was.

Have fun at ATA!


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Ahem!:

Without ever investigating the matter in depth..... :)

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OR:

You are powerless against me!
Peer comment(s):

agree Liam Hamilton
2 hrs
Thank you, Liam.
agree Alfa Trans (X)
3 hrs
Thank you, Marju.
agree kmtext
3 hrs
Thanks, KM.
agree Julie Waddington : I'm agreeing with the note added "You are powerless against me!" - that seems to sum it up perfectly!!
5 hrs
Thank you, Julie.
agree phoenix 2009
6 hrs
Thank you, Phoe.
agree urbom : Yes, it's used to assert one's dominance/superiority.
9 hrs
Thanks, Ur.
agree Mary O’Connor (X)
12 hrs
Thanks, Mary-O
agree George C.
13 hrs
Thank you, Sol.
neutral Travelin Ann : it really has no expletive deleted connotation//And I beg to differ - it is simply not that rude
19 hrs
I beg to differ. It is really a highly insulting expression that carries the force of a vulgar insult.
agree Rolf Keiser
1 day 7 hrs
Thanks, Gold.
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+1
30 mins

"I" am the boss

A saying used to demoralize or degrade someone during or after an event in which the man is in a superior possition. Often used to degrade women when said by a man.

"Ooh, you see that shot? Who's your daddy?"

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=who's your da...

Not in this context, but seems like this phrase is used against women from men, who wants to take power over them.
Peer comment(s):

agree Claudia Veloso
4 hrs
Thank you Claudia
neutral urbom : Nothing to do with women here, or indeed in most cases, contrary to your assertion. Men use it to (jokingly) assert their dominance over one another. Do you seriously think "that shot" was said to a woman? Your copy & paste skills are impeccable, however.
9 hrs
Thank you for your comments. That's why I clearly wrote above that this phrase is usually used against women, but not in this particular context.
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17 hrs

Pedro Martinez admitted NY controlled him

This started when Pedro was pitching for the Boston Red Sox, and he just couldn't win. In an interview, he "tipped his cap" to New York.

The concept is that New York was his boss or bossed him around.
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21 hrs

Who provides for you and protects you and is the one who wants you? Tell me where you loyalty lies.

Although your context concerns a dispute, the phrase is not always used in anger or to humiliate. Sometimes it's asked teasingly/affectionately. It's always asked to seek reassurance, though.
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3 days 8 hrs

Who looks after you.

Who is the best... who looks after you... my son keeps saying this to me when he thinks he did something good to help me. I say back to him, you should be saying "Who's your mumma" Indicating he is a big girl.. jokingly of course.

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Australian version of course..
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Reference comments

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Reference:

Wiki

I've also heard it in the context of suggesting that somebody has only got their job thanks to nepotism. The American usage seems to be more about dominance.

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http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A46032-2005Jan...
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Report in Sports Illustrated

"It will go down in Yankees-Red Sox lore as the Daddy Speech, in honor of this highlight in Martinez's interview session after a 6-4 loss to New York on Friday: 'What can I say? I tip my hat and call the Yankees my daddy.'

There was more to it, of course. Martinez, speaking while seated in front of a packed room of reporters in a news conference setting, said he didn't want to pitch against the Yankees again: 'I hope they ... disappear and never come back. I would rather like to face any other team right now.'"

In other words, Martinez was accepting the Yankees' superiority and dominance over him.
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