English to Polish Social Sciences Psychology uraza/przebaczenie

We cannot choose their actions, but we can choose how we respond—like letting go or creating boundaries for situations that show themselves to be repeatedly hurtful. Then, we can choose to give people the benefit of the doubt and talk ourselves down from situations when our offenses begin to skyrocket.

Być może to najprostszy angielski, ale ja mam z tym problem. 'give people the benefit of the doubt' to akurat wiem, bo w Przysłowiach (Biblia) oznacza zapomnieć urazę/krzywdy.