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An idiomatic phrase often used by women if you use it of a woman who is present when you c all her 'she'.
(idiomatic, UK) A rebuke especially directed towards children for having referred to a woman in the third person when she is present, instead of using her name or a respectable or appropriate title. Example:-
- "She's coming on the trip with us too!"
- "Who is 'she', the cat's mother?"
- "Sorry, gran is coming with us too."
- "Good. When someone is present, use their name."

The Oxford English Dictionary says the catchphrase “Who’s she—the cat’s mother?” (or some variation thereof) is “said to one (esp. a child) who uses the pronoun of the third person singular impolitely or with inadequate reference.”


A child can get a scolding for using the word “she” instead of a name, especially if the “she” (often an older person, like one’s mother) was present.

And the scolding consists of “Who’s ‘she’—the cat’s mother?”

Is there a Turkish eqivalent idiomatic expression?